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Share Your Story: Have you ever lived on minimum wage?

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A woman working full time for a full year at the current federal minimum wage of $7.25 an hour will make only $14,500 a year — an amount which is below the federal poverty line for a family of three. For tipped workers, the federal minimum cash wage is only $2.13 an hour!

Increasing the minimum wage for all workers, including tipped workers, would give working families a boost and help close the wage gap — nearly two-thirds of minimum wage workers and tipped workers are women.

But we need your help. We want to hear about what it takes to live on minimum wage from women who've experienced it. Share your story below to help us show legislators how important raising the minimum wage would be for families!

Please note: The views expressed in the stories below are those of the authors themselves and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the National Women's Law Center. All statements of fact in these stories have been provided by the individual authors, and the National Women's Law Center cannot and does not vouch for their accuracy. The Center will compile the stories and may use them, in whole or in part, in our advocacy efforts.

Your Stories

Justin

, north carolina,

I have severe learning disabilities and severe asthma, i only make $600 a month, I went back to school to get my ged 5 times and failed all five, i went to adult high school at the community college for 2 and a half years and never made it a quarter of the way through the ninth grade. i now understand that you can give it your best and still never make it... now i really understand why so many people are selling drugs... i guess i really need to get into that, I just don't want to be breaking the law and i have never liked that idea , but what choice do i have? 

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a REAL NIGGA

Columbus, GA, retail sales/ drug dealer

Im gone say some REAL ISH.. LISTEN UPim a young black man.. '89 year i was born. Lived Down south for most of my youth.. I GREW UP SEEING STRUGGLE.. i think its horrible that one of the first things i remember as a kid is UNDERSTANDING what STRUGGLE is.. KNOWIN what MONEY is..and knowing what its like to NOT HAVE IT.. and see others frivilously spend what most strive so DAMN HARD to get. I got jobs here and there as a teen.. moved to the WEST.. recently. 2008-2010. min wage 9.04..  DONT MEAN ISH. parents charge u rent..so as a man u pay. MONEY GONE..bus to work everyday. MONEY GONE. pay cell bill. MONEY GONE. plus as a man... u GOTTA keep $$ in yo pocket.. plus.. u gotta find yo career EARLY in LIFE.. or u gone fall behind. SO u spend money on what u NEED to get more $$.. (studio equiptment in my case) MONRY GONEaint do skool cause im too smart to get a lil change (a few 1000) just to OWE waaaay more years down the line..( STUDENT LOAN DEBT is HUUUGE!) HEEELLLL NAAAW.. so i said F**K skool. so how can a brother save money??? when AINT NO CASH to save? 16 and already got BILLS.. MOVED OUT to grow my own balls as a man.. PAYING RENT.. MONEY GONE.. then.. DOOOOOM.. FIRED from job.. SEE.. when u black.. when u get FIRED.. NO MATTER WHAT the reason.. aint no body gone give a F**K. lost my job.. SNOWBALL EFFECT.. so what does a BLACK MAN do? cant go back to moms from the jump right.. SO... give 2 weeks to find a JOB.. NOTHING.. NOW.. TIME TO GET GRIMEY.. two options.. ROB or SLANG. (sell drugs) and i did it.. but even that runs dry eventually. AINT no retirement plans for DRUG DEALERS ..feel me. WHATS the option? get a job.. AMERICA dont give a DAMN about anyone that aint BLOND HAIRED..BLUE EYED IMAGE OF AMERICAN.. (no diss to OBAMA.. but ONE black man makin it DOES NOT EQUATE for 400+ years of unequal opportunity for the rest of the race) LETS BE REAL..  so i hit the streets.. why?? it goes like this..GET a JOB.. so u apply for a lot.. (i've had 4 jobs and got fired from 3) NO ONE HIRES UTIME WAITS FOR NO MAN... bills DONT WAIT.. so i CANT WAIT for jobs to hit me back..so what can u do?? no $$ for travel.. so u cant get to temp jobs.. so u do the ONLY THANG GUARENTEED to make $$.. SLANG DRUGS.. now i got a job.. moved back down south.. MY paycheck wage went from 10 flat.. ( living out west.. HIGH ASS COST OF LIVING) to 7.25.. WHAT THE F**K?? STILL LOSING.. LOSING EVEN WORSE NOW.. the american DREAM aint to SURVIVE ya'll.. ANIMALS SURVIVE.. humans are meant to LIVE.. so when ISH hits the fans... u WIPE it off... WITH THEIR TOWEL.. feel me..AMERICA.. where u GOTTA be GRIMEY and DIRTY...to SHINE..I'll stop sellin drugs when i get hired to a job that makes me more $$ than SLANGIN..till then.. SEE U on the CORNER... I GOT what u NEED.. 

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Rena

Spokane, Washington, Call center

I've never made a lot of money. This year, I will be lucky to have made $15,000. Right now I work at a call center, full time. I don't make a lot, but I have been very, very careful with what I do have. I've spent my whole live learning the value of a dollar, and prioritizing my money. Funny thing, I'm a college graduate. I have my Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology. I used to be a mental health case manager, and made twice as much. I quit that job when I moved here to Spokane after a divorce. I've applied to jobs in my field, with no luck. So again, I took anything I could find. I hate my job, but it pays the bills. It's my belief that you don't need a lot of money to be happy and to be successful. Not that I'm poor by choice!!! If I had it my way, my family would never want for anything! My partner makes just very slightly more than I do. Combined, we make $23.20/hr. The minimum wage in Washington is a little over $9. Together, we have been able to purchase a house, and save up for my maternity leave. We had our first child three weeks ago. I am able to stay home with her until she is three months, thank the lord. I'd rather be home full time, but we can't afford it. Even with our meager amout of bills. We dont have cable, we don't go out to dinner or movies. We buy everything used, and CHEAP. We don't get food stamps, or state assistance. He has health insurance, and we take the bus to work. We have a car, but only drive it when necessary. We don't have a lot, but we have made it work. House, car, food, family. Granted, our daughter is still itty-bitty, and we'll have to find a way to provide for her when she gets older and needs more. Right now we're struggling to find daycare for her for when I do go back to work. Centers are asking nearly $800/month for 3 days per week, and we can't even get to those places on the bus. Having someone come to our home - some people are asking for $17/hour!!!!! We'd be $650 short each month if I stayed home full time, and we can barely afford to have someone watch her if we do. We don't have family here, don't qualify for assistance, and can't really afford such a big expense. But I'm not going to stress about it. I'm going to enjoy my daughter, and the roof over my head, and the dinner my partener worked hard to put on our table - and I'm going to hope things work out. We may never be rich - heck, we may never be out of the red. Can you raise a family on minimum wage - it's possible, but if I'm struggling at $23.20 an hour, what kind of life would it be?

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Debby H.

, Florida, Non-Traditional Student

When I was growing up in the 1970s, we lived in Middlesex County, NJ. I was in elementary school, my sister was a baby, and my father worked two jobs so my mother could stay home with us kids. My dad hated like hell that my mom resorted to buying end-of-day or day-old bread to make sandwiches on, but with the money my parents saved from small sacrifices like that and from other things, they were able to save enough money for all four of us to go on day trips to the Jersey Shore -- Asbury Park when it was still something to look at -- a few times a year.  Back then a little hard work and some smart budgeting would get you by, because your dollar went much farther. Now, it's a lost cause. I do not know exactly how much my father earned at that time, but for even a small family like mine, living near New York City in a modest two-bedroom apartment that was NOT rent-controlled or rent-stabilized was difficult. The New York Times article is absolutely correct.  I lived in New York for eight years.  In order to offset the sky-high prices of EVERYTHING, Albany does need to raise the minimum wage -- higher than $8.50/hour. New York City's prices are about on par with Silicon Valley, so if Silicon Valley can legislate a living wage -- not a minimum wage -- why can't New York?

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Ashley

Dallas, TX, Barista

I'm a 25 year old woman from a tiny town in northeast Texas. I earned my Associate's degree on scholarship but could only find jobs as a waitress or as a mental health tech for minimum wage, no benefits. I moved to Tyler, TX for better opportunities, but I still could only find a waitressing job. I developed fibromyalgia and was forced to quit my job because I had taken two medical leaves of absence and they were tired of having to cover my shifts. (Illegal, I know, but what was I to do?)  I subsequently lost my apartment and had to move back in with my father.  A year later my sister and I moved here to Dallas for better work/educational opportunities, but since I have the brkoen lease on my record from the lost apartment and since she has a felony on her record (stupid teenage days...) we are unable to get an apartment. We live in a slummy hotel, barely 300sg feet if THAT, full of prostitutes and drug dealers and gang bangers. The place has been robbed once since we've lived there and I can't count how many times I've heard gunshots or how many times the police have come (sometimes in droves of six cars or more). My sister and I work fulltime, she for minimum wage with tips at a salon and me at Starbucks as a barista. I want to go back to school but at this point I don't make enough money to even afford the cheapest community college in Dallas. I applied for student aid but never recieved it (they had their heads so far up their asses they couldn't even explain to me what the holdup was). This is ridiculous. I was told growing up that as long as I studied and did well in school and worked hard I could be whatever I wanted to be. I want to be a virologist for the CDC. But how? How can I when the only job I could find (which I do love, by the way) doesn't pay enough to allow me to go the the cheapest commnity college in the city? Is this still America? What the hell happened? 

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Michelle Knight

Atlanta, Georgia, Security Officer

Let me start by saying I mean no offense to anyone, other than those who should rightly be offended! We live in the supposed Most prosperous country in the world yet we have, the highest ratio of hard-working, WORKING-POOR people in our country. My Family & I have struggled for some time to survive from pay-check to pay-check and I used to wonder why! My eyes have been opened to the truth & facts that we also live in an Extremely bigoted/racist/Mysoginistic/Classist society, which means we live in a society of pure fools, { It takes each and every one of Us being able to "LIVE", not merely Survive, for our society to thrive!!!!!}, who believe and will barter/buy/sell/trade/steal/or kill to keep Certain people and Peoples in positions of Excellent Health, Out-Standing Education & Financial Prosperity to the detriment of the rest of Us. My Daughters & I spent years where I worked so much I hardly ever got to spend time with me Children, because 1 Full-time minimum wage job was NOT going to cut it {and I was able-bodied & minded so, Welfare was not an option for Us!}. I struggled and fought my way through school to receive an Asssociates Degree { while enduring a physical disability for part of that 2yrs. that I would later find was permanent & being a victim of Domestic Violence/Spousal Abuse}, so I could get a better job & provide for my Family without becoming yet another burden on the backs of others like me who were willing to and did work! There were times that Our diet consisted of Ramen Noodles for Our 3 meals a day and possibly a bologna sandwich {which I would often forgo to ensure that my Children would have another meal}. We were in protective custody of the state at one point with no vehicle and had to walk approx. 7 miles to & from the grocery store when we did finally start getting food stamps to help out. We have had to make Our way through me losing a job because I couldn't afford to get back and forth to work, which created to the usual snowball effect: lost job, lost home, lost belongings, lost hope, lost Our voices. We have come a long way in a very short period of time, only to have my Daughters now facing the dilemnas of terribly/sickeningly low wages & very high costs for any & everything they need {along with my Grandchildren}. I always tried to continue to believe that if I worked hard, I would see the Fruits of my efforts & I taught my Daughters the same thing, unfortunately the world & life are doing ALL they can to teach them the complete opposite, {If you do what is good/right/correct/honest/ & ehtical, Not only will you work yourself to death, but it will bee for nothing, because lying/stealing/cheating/deceiving/ & pure unadulterated Evil seem to run Our societies/Our World now! So, to answer the question in the simplest way, "What it takes to live on Minimum Wage, rather How do you live on Minimum Wage?"
YOU DON'T "LIVE" ON OR OFF OF MINIMUM WAGES, YOU EXIST, STRUGGLING FOR EVER SINGLE CRUMB THAT GRACIOUSLY FALLS YOUR WAY, YOU KEEP FIGHTING AGAINST EVERY ODD THAT REARS IT'S HEAD HOPING AGAINST HOPE THAT THINGS WILL GET BETTER SO YOU CAN KEEP GOING - SO THAT YOU CAN EXPECT SOMETHING DIFFERENT FOR YOUR CHILDREN & GRANDCHILDREN, YOU LEARN TO PUT PRAYERS IN PLACE OF THE DOLLARS YOU DON'T HAVE AND HOPE THAT SOMEONE ELSE OUT THERE WILL UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH, YOU LEARN TO MAKE THE MOST OUT OF THE LEAST, YOU RECOGNIZE THAT NECESSITY IS INDEED THE MOTHER OF INVENTION, YOU PUT FEARS/SHAME/PRIDE/ & JUDGEMENT ALL IN THEIR PLACES, AND YOU STRIKE OUT MOVING FORWARD THE VERY BEST CAN!!!!!

TO EACH & EVERY ONE OF MY FELLOW-MINIMUM-WAGE-MAKERS {THEN AND/OR NOW}, PLEASE REMEMBER " OFTEN IN LIFE YOU HAVE TO HAVE BEEN A FIGHTER TO BECOME A SURVIVOR, YOU HAVE TO HAVE BEEN A SURVIVOR TO BECOME "A CONQUEROR!!!", IT'S WHEN YOU BECOME A "CONQUEROR" YOU HAVE TRULY BEGUN TO "LIVE"!!!!!!!!!!"

TO ALL: BECOME YOUR OWN "CONQUEROR", LIVE YOUR LIVES TO THE FULLEST & BEST OF YOUR ABILITIES & BE BLESSED!!!!!

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Alana Cotten

, NC,

I deserve great pay just like men.

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Pe er Gatliff

Lawton, Oklahoma, Retired/Disabled

After I lost my wife and my railroad career within a 36 month period and with 2 sons ages 7 and 11 to raise. It was rough living on low wages. But what saved my 2 sons and I from starving and living in the streets was our SSI due to my sons being minors. Now the GOP wants to destroy this program. My sons and worked as a team. They would read the newspapers for weddings and pick up cans and bottles on weekends at 5 cents a pop. I mowed lawns and worked on campus while going to school full time at a local college. But we made it. My sons upon leaving home for the military took me out on Mothers Day. After our lunch I was given a Mothers Day Card and a white  cake in blue letters. "Happy Mothers Day Dad." In the card, "Happy Mothers Day.Dad. Mom would be proud".  

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