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Share Your Story: Have you faced pregnancy discrimination in the workplace?

Courts have created a pregnancy loophole that allows many employers to refuse to accommodate even simple requests to help workers maintain healthy pregnancies. Pregnant women have been fired because they asked to avoid heavy lifting, or to stay off ladders, or to sit on a stool instead of standing at a cash register all day. It happens a lot. Maybe it happened to you.

Did your employer refuse to make simple modifications that you needed because of your pregnancy? Did you lose your job? Were you forced to take unpaid leave? Or did you just decide to ignore your doctor's advice so you could keep working? Please tell us about it. Don't worry, we understand that this is personal. We will follow up with you if we are interested in sharing your story with Members of Congress, press, etc.

If you would rather communicate your story with us privately, please email us at info@nwlc.org.

Please note: The views expressed in the stories below are those of the authors themselves and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the National Women's Law Center. All statements of fact in these stories have been provided by the individual authors, and the National Women's Law Center cannot and does not vouch for their accuracy. The Center will compile the stories and may use them, in whole or in part, in our advocacy efforts.

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BranDee G.

, KS, Supervisor

I was promoted to a supervisor around the same time I found out I was pregnant. The department was a mess because of the lack in positive leadership previously so I worked hard to change that. The once 7 person department unfortunately downsized to 3 and all the extra work of course fell on me so I worked 16-18 hour days to keep things running. My boss made a comment upset about me taking lunches even though I rarely did so I said I really actually don't and she argued I did because she had seen me in the break room. She then made a comment that when she was pregnant she only took a week off. I hadn't taken any additional time off so I'm not sure what she was getting at but I left it alone. Finally I got the department fully staffed but aim with alot of clean up to be done from years and years of errors. I stopped the extra long days as now I'm almost at my third trimester and with the already stressful environment which had been talking a toll on my health Irma getting worse. The week before last the stress got so bad my blood pressure shot up while at work and I was shaking and hot and my heart rate went up. I called my doctor and was given some things to try but warned to try and stay relaxed. My boss was in a meeting during this time so was unaware of what was going on at the time. The following business day I told her about it and she tried to imply it was dietary when I have not changed anything about my diet. If anything its improved.  A couple of days later I was in some discomfort so was walking slower than normal and kind of limping/wobbling and she asked what was wrong with my leg.  I replied nothing I'm just kind of hurting so she responded either walk right or go home.  They have forced me to step down out of the position but are dangling me there with all the stress and responsibilities still! I have requested to go part time because the stress has done damage on my health and me emotionally and am getting the run around. The HR person told me to request something in writing from my doctor to see if that will get my boss to comply with my request so that is my next step. I don't feel like my boys should be able to say things like that to anyone pregnant or not but I don't know what to do. 

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Tatum, California,

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Jass

, NY,

I was given the consolation prize of working coat check which made me the grand total of $1 in tips before I voluntarily called it a night and at least allowed my * tubal reversal * co-workers who were regular coat-checkers the opportunity to earm more tips and not have to share with someone who was just placed there so as to avoid a complaint. I

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Jessica

, South Carolina,

Until reciently, I was working for a call center as a customer care representative. During the interview process, I made sure to let both people interviewing me that I was expecting and due to have my baby in May. I was told that was fine, that I would be worked with and had nothing to worry about. I was diagnosed with Hyperemesis Gravidarum, a form of morning sickness that only 1% of pregnancy’s get, which put me in the hospital a total of six times. I came back into work with a doctor's note each time, and was told by the Human Resorces department that the company does not take doctor's notes or excuses, only return to work forms. After training ended, we were put on the production floor, and at first I had no issues. That is, until the policies changed. Suddenly we were put on a point system for our attendance, being told that after the loss of 12 points [3 for each time we called out or left our shift early] we would be terminated. Due to stress, I went into preterm labor at 29 weeks while on my scheduled shift and had to drive myself to the hospital, where I was admitted until 2 am the next morning. I came to work for my shift the next evening, and was immediatly told to leave, as I 'needed rest' and was not allowed to take calls that day. My points were cut and they refused to take my paperwork from the hospital. I was then told I must fill out a disability form and have my doctor do the same, which he refused as I am not, in any way, disabled. I was then told I was not allowed to take any restroom breaks while on the clock, and must hold my bladder with the exception of my scheduled breaks which were once every four hours, and that I must bring a doctor's note to be able to get up to urinate. [Though keep in mind, they refuse to take doctor's notes.] Then I was told that I would have to resign, as they would not be giving me maternity leave, paid or unpaid, as I had not been there long enough and it was 'against their policy' to have the right to leave and still have my job secured. With no way to fight them, I turned in a resignation letter on the 19th of this month and under the reason for leaving, wrote "Due to pregnancy discrimination, I can no longer work for this company." Now, they continuiously call my phone, wanting to 'discuss my resignation form,' and refuse to leave me alone. Does anyone know if this case of discrimination would hold up in court? I'm not familiar with how hearings for discrimination go, but I do know I want the company to pay for the way they treat their employees, so no other pregnant woman will have to endure what I have.

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vera

alaska, alabama, a worker

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J. Rodriguez

Midland, TX, Supervisor

I didn't know what to do then and the fact still lingers as to whether my situation was handled in a proper manner. i have a supervisory position within my company, a high stress position, I was able to maintain my position through my first pregnancy without any problems. I had full cooperation from my superiors and co-workers. I didn't ask to be treated any different. Now a year and a half later I was pregnant again and still I hold the same position. Well, due to a lot of changes in management the company I work for was going under a lot of stress as a whole. I did my job to the best of my abilities until I could not handle the stress anymore. At which time I spoke to my manager and told her that I would like to step down from my position because I did not want to put my child or myself at risk because although I was not lifting anything heavy or bending over to reach for anything I was enduring a lot of stress and it was affecting my health. So she asked me to put in my request in the companies system as to where I would be interested in moving to. There was a position in the vision center that I was very interested in, so I put in for it, let her know, and even went to the immediate manager and let him know I was interested. Well, when I went to speak to that manager his response was, that he would not consider me because I was pregnant and going to be taking maternity leave...a manager from a nearby bank happened to be standing next to us listening to the conversation. I stayed shocked but just walked away. Shortly after that I found out the position was giving to a person who had very bad attendance but was told that that person was the best qualified for the position. I went to the company manager and told her that I did not agree with that desicion because i know other than myself there was at least one more person better qualified than the person who got the position, I also proceeded to tell her what i had been told that I would not receive it. She then said she would handle the situation, well I saw nothing done because that person still got the position and I know i was not considered, not because I was not the best qualified but because I was pregnant!!!

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Veronica

San Jose, CA, Stock room lead

I got hired as stock room lead at 26 weeks pregnant. I am now 32 weeks along and I was told previously that if I would like to use a chair to perform some of my duties that would be okay. Today I wasn't feeling particularly well so I grabbed a chair seeing as I have a history of high blood pressure and what not as well. My manager told me to put my chair back, and added that if I want to use a chair I need to get a doctors note. Is that legal? On the posters in the break room it states that it is the employers obligation to accommodate. And why would she say okay to the chair 3 weeks ago and then make me put it back today? I've already missed 6 days of work. 4 due to a hemmorhoidectomy (from standing too long) and two this week for a bad cough, cramping in my abdomin and a sinus infection. An opinion on my situation would be greatly appreciated.

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Nicole

Huntingtown, Md, Delivery driver

My name is Nicole. I am a 37 year old mother of 3 who became pregnant again whilst working for a local needs paper company as a delivery driver. On the morning of February 7th 2013 I began miscarrying my baby and sought treatment at the hospital. I was in great pain and bleeding heavily. After all the tests were administered I was told to rest for the next 5 days. I had a physicians note relieving me of work. I had called my boss to alert him of the situation a full 12 hours before I was due to work. Upon returning home that evening at 6 pm I received a text message relaying that I was not only fired effective immediately but that I would be receiving no compensation for the 17 days of work I had provided the company with during January and February. So in essence, I'm to swallow the fact of not only losing my baby but also the 1100$ I am owed for previous work. I will go to the ends of the earth to make sure I'm paid properly and that no other woman suffers this kind of mistreatment at the hands of this company!

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J.GARCIA

Rancho cucamonga, Ca, Case records technician

I am 7pregnant weeks prenant with my third child. I informed my immediate supervisor as soon as I found out, I was very excited ! She responded well. This is my second pregnancy in my office. My first pregnancy in this office, government office, was a nightmare. Immediately after submitting my light duty request, my physical duties were increased. We have a file room the size of a football field. Files range in weight from 2lbs to 25lbs. We also have alot of boxes with discharged files. I was the only female who received extra file room duties and there was another pregnant employee. She did not submit her light duty because she was a new hire wbo feared they would fire her. I questioned my increased duties, but got no where, the mamger stated he was putting me where I was needed. I complied. Then I was denied overtime based on light duty alone. The union and i fought, we won. Then they denied payment of overtime if worked only sick leave re-embersment, union and I fought we won. There were happening between union and my Administrator that resulted in a PERB hearing against my employer from the union. I was subpoenaed to testify and did. By this time my son was almost a year. The following month, they attempted to dock ny pay for calling in 1and day sick. That is now in arbitration. Now, at 7 weeks pregnant my duties in the file room are incresed once again, when questioned they stated they can not show favortism as they could be sued.....??? I have yet to submit any documents for accomidations or light duty. I see the Dr. In three weeks, but fear upsets to myself. I cry so hard i cant breathe at the thought of going through this again. What can I do? ? I do not want to over react. I am very capable of performing all my duties w/o help other than the file room extras. The shelves are 81/2 feet tall and require constant use of step stools and bending to ground level as well. It is very uncomfortable when I get big. Union is aware but I dont want to fuel a fire I can extinguish.

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