Share Your Story: Do you have a Title IX story to share?
Do you have a Title IX story to share?
More than 40 years of breaking down barriers for women and girls is a spectacular achievement, and we want to mark this milestone and launch Title IX forward into its next 40 years and beyond. But we need your help!
The National Women's Law Center is compiling Title IX stories from the past and present. We're determined to keep the pressure on to fulfill the law's promise, and by sharing your story today, you can help us do just that.
Please share your story below, and we're not just talking about sports stories. Do you have a story about the science and technology fields, about school bullying and harassment, or about pregnant and/or parenting students? Title IX reaches all those issues and more — and we want to hear those stories, too!
Please note: The views expressed in the stories below are those of the authors themselves and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the National Women's Law Center. All statements of fact in these stories have been provided by the individual authors, and the National Women's Law Center cannot and does not vouch for their accuracy. The Center will compile the stories and may use them, in whole or in part, in our advocacy efforts.



Your Stories
Paulette A. Meulenberg
Frederick, MD, Retired
I am a "senior" citizen, I believe. My story is from the sixties, but still relevant today. I was one of those working during the "space race to the moon" with all the dreams and hopes of the times. Women were excluded in this at every level you could think of. My daughter (Csl-Tech) cannot understand anything we speak of here. My husband has a PHD in nuclear physics from Vanderbilt. For years he told me (proudly!) about a young WOMAN who applied to grad school (the nerve!) and was of course! rejected. Why? She was Catholic, would become pregnant and dropout, wasting everybody's time. It turned out the ENTIRE grad class were drafted and sent to Vietnam as Privates. It took many years and two daughters before he realized the real story here. I hope Vanderbilt has changed for the better. I was also apalled that students were told such by faculty.
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Karen
Andover, Mass, Teacher
Here's my story...When I was young I played with the neighborhood kids, mostly boys. We played everything. When we grew to be a little older I followed the boys off to little league practice, glove in hand, only to be told I wasn't allowed. One of my friends was chosen for a team with a coach who would let me practice with them. I played catcher back then, and I was quite good, better than the boy catcher but still the coach couldn't let me play in any games.My friends and I went into middle school, there were sport offerings for me. I played 6 aside intramural basketball after school. Things changed quickly. I asked why we couldn't run the full court, then experienced the addition of the rover position in basketball... Two forwards only allowed in the front court, two guards only allowed on the back half, and two rovers allowed to run the whole court. What freedom, I was always a rover. By the time I got to high school it was five on five full court, we played other schools, and there were numbers of other sports. My town was great. The newspaper came to interview me and a few of my friends about Title IX and our experience. Then I injured my knee. I was told by the Athletic Director that I should stop playing sports, that the training room, the trainer, and the training supplies were all in the boys lockoom room, all for the boys. The Director called a meeting with my parents, my mom came and my dad went to work. Mom sat quiet, listening, the meeting ended, I continued to play. In secret the trainer, worried about backlash, met me in my last period classroom to tape me every day. As a graduating senior I was voted the top female athlete in my class and given a number of scholarships.I went off to college to study physical education. I continued to play sports, with a lingering knee problem until a jump shot freshman year during basketball season tore away what remained of my anterior crutiate, The school physician said I needed surgery. I opted to return home to work with my surgeon at home only to hear from him that I should quit playing sports because a scar on my knee would do little for my bikini days on the beach. Ha. Though much had changed, much had remained the same. That was 1976. Still 40 years later we can say the same.
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Karen
Andover, Mass, Teacher
Here's my story...When I was young I played with the neighborhood kids, mostly boys. We played everything. When we gt o be a little older Ingollowed the boys off to little league practice, glove in hand, only to be old I wasn't allowed. One of my friends got on a team with a coach who would let me practice with them. I played catcher back then, and I was quite good, better than the boy catcher but still the coach couldn't let me play in any games.My friends and I went into middle school, there wesports sport offerings for me. I played 6 aside intramural basketball after school. Things changed quickly. I asked why we couldn't run the court, then s experienced the addition of the rover position in basketball... Two forwards only allowed in the front court, two guards only allowed on the back half, and two rover allowed to run the whole court. What freedom, I was always a rover. By the time I got to high school it was five on five full court, we played other schools, and there were numbers of other sports. My town was great. The newspaper came to interview me and a few of my friends about Title IX and our experience. Then I injured my knee. I was told by the Athletic Director that I should stop playing sports, that the training oom, the trainer, and the training supplies were all in the boys lockoom room, all for the boys. the Director called a meeting with my parents, my mom came and my dad went to work. Mom sat quiet, listening, the meeting ended, I continued to play. In secret the trainer, worried about backlash, met me in my last period classroom to tape me every day. As a graduating senior I was voted the top female athlete in my class abpnd given a number of scholarships.i went off to college to study physical education. I continued to play sports, with a lingering knee problem until a jumpshott freshman year souring basketball seasodrilled away what remained of my anterior crutiate, the school physician said I needed surgery. I opted to return home to work with my surgeon at home only to hear from him that I should quit playing sports because a scare on my knee would do little for my bikini days on the beach. Ha. Though much had changed, much had remained the same. That was 1976. Still 40 years later we can say the same.
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Sine Anahita
Fairbanks, AK, Assoc Prof of Sociology; coordinator of Women's & Gender Studies
The student newspaper at the University of Alaska Fairbanks has published two stories in recent weeks that, in my opinion, constitute illegal sexual harassment. In one case, the newspaper published a fake news story for its April Fools edition that used a sexual slur for women's genitals in the headline, accompanied by a graphic depiction of a woman's body, legs spread for a gynecological exam. Fake quotes of a sexual nature were attributed to real women by name who work at the university. Many of my students were upset by the article, as were many faculty and staff. Other students commented that the article was just a joke and that women like me who objected should, in the words of one of my students, "just lighten up." Because I'm a sociologist, I conducted a survey in two of my intro classes about the article. Most of the respondents agreed that the article was degrading to women. Most of them also agreed that the article was funny. Thus the majority of the students surveyed seem to believe that degrading women through graphic sexual mockery is funny. I filed a complaint of hostile environment due to sexual harassment with our university's Office of Diversity and Equal Opportunity, where our Title IX coordinator works. At first, the director declined to process my complaint. After about a week, her official response was that upon the advice of our university's General Counsel, she would not investigate my complaint. The most recent case of sexual harassment by the student newspaper occurred this week. http://www.uafsunstar.com/archives/23256 A student journalist wrote an article about a student-run Facebook site where students at my university are invited to post their secrets. Many of the posts are racist in nature, many are sexual, and others are simply student silliness. To accompany the article, the newspaper printed a screenshot of student posts that identify a woman student by name, commenting on her sexual activities: "Like if you've fucked (real name of student)". Another anonymous poster wrote that she suspected her roommate may be pregnant. A named male student responded: "Punch her in the stomach. She'll thank you later." Yet another named student called another student a "fag". The newspaper article is entitled, "UAF Confessions harbors hate speech", and the screenshots were meant to demonstrate the extent of the hate speech. However, the names of the students should have been redacted. What the newspaper has done in printing actual names of actual students is akin to newspapers reporting the names of rape victims. And in this case, printing the real names constitutes sexual harassment that creates a hostile learning and working environment. I can't describe the degree of my distress. I know several of the students. These students are in my classes. I'm dismayed at their ignorance and their hostility to women. My job is to teach these students so that they learn why and how sexual harassment occurs. However, how can I teach, how can I work, and how can students learn in a university environment that condones sexual harassment in the student newspaper??? After my most recent experience with the university's refusal to investigate the previous incident, I have no expectation that filing another complaint will result in any action. The University of Alaska Fairbanks has apparently decided that the student newspaper is free to sexually mock, degrade, humiliate, bully, harrass, and target women, even to the point of calling the women by their full names.
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Lisa Kurtz
Dade City, Florida,
I'm writting on behalf of an entire school, in Dade City, Florida. Moore Mickens Education Center, first established in 1930 as the only school for students of color, at that time. It transitioned to the "school for students" that "no other schools want.There are a significant number of pregnant teens, and student parents that attend Moore Mickens, because of trouble regarding things like bullying and discrimination at other schools. They are part of the "cyesis" program. The school is also home for students with disabilities, like My 17 year old Son, who is enrolled in the adult education program, and ESOL or Migrant students, and those who are at risk for dropping out.Recently the School Board decided to close this school, we have not been given a date yet, but it could be as early as the end of this month. The only information provided to the public by the school board is that the students may be re-located to portables at some of the very same high schools the students left, to be at Moore Mickens. Students who want to learn, but can't in the traditional setting due to various reasons are being forced out of their chosen school.Moore Mickens is on the east side of the city and the proposed schools are on the west side. Many students ride bikes, walk or have family, friends or whomever they can transport them to Moore Mickens for classes at night. The difference in distances of the schools will prevent many students from attending. The only other adult learning center is over 40 miles away and since most students are in a stressed socio-economic situation, they will not be able to travel to that center either.This is a small town, with limited resources, but the people in support of keeping the school open, including the city council realize we may not have a chance without the help of a lawyer. Contacting the florida board of education has done no good. We are desperate. None of the students want to be displaced, but it is especialy hard for the pregnant teens, teen parents and students with exceptionalities such as My Son. Though the Superintendent states this is not a racial or discriminatory matter, there is a thing called disperate effect. Meaning; though the intentions of the school board may not be discriminatory, the results are. Please pray for us that we are able to keep this wonderful school open! Thank You!
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Nora C
Mankato, MN,
I am doing a History Day project on Title IX and I thought that this site was very helpful and gave me GREAT primary sources. Thank YOU!
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Ashley Byrd
Tucson, AZ, Care Giver to Senior Citizens
My name is Ashley Byrd, I am twenty three years old. My son, Jesse, just recently turned two months old. While I was pregnant, I decided to take classes through Brown Mackie College to obtain an Associates Degree in Paralegal studies. I chose Brown Mackie because it was advertised to be a school for working people who had families and wanted to go back to school to better their circumstances. Due to extenuating circumstances I didn't finish college, but my husband encouraged me to return to school while he continued in his Air Force career.It was pretty easy to get started. Soon I was in a class room and feeling like I finally had a chance to do something worthwhile. Everything was wonderful until I had to miss four days of school to have my baby. The student advisor called while I was in labor to tell me that my student status had been revoked because I had missed four consecutive days. I had told them previously that I would need at least two weeks off because my due date was coming up. "That's too long. You'll have to drop and re enroll." What was I supposed to do? Give birth to Jesse in class?There were some complications during labor that left me in pretty bad shape (thankfully Jesse was alright). The doctor gave me a note stating that I required eight weeks to heal properly, six of those weeks being mandatory bedrest. When I tried to negotiate with the school to get back into classes, they just demanded immediate payment on my student loans. Either all $3,000 of it right then or $450 a month so I could start classes again. All was said with a smile as they laid out the "options" for me. They even encouraged me to beg my family for money. Considering the demographic they claim to be helping, how could they expect students to instantly meet that demand?Now I am at a loss. Brown Mackie representatives call and email on a regular basis, demanding that I pay for classes that I wasn't even allowed to finish. I'm actually here looking for help. Do I have any protection through title IX?
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Rebecca
, North Dakota,
I have a very sad story to tell... My older sister is in the Air Guards. She has recently gone through a divorce and is still currently going through a custoday battle. The judge granted full custoday to her ex-husband because she is in the millitary and the judge said that due to that fact that can be cause for an unstable family. She is also trying to start her own business and that was another factor the judge granted custoday to the ex-husband because that made her too selfish.
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Jodie Z. Bernstein
Washington DC, Washington DC, Lawyer
I served as General Counsel of the Department of Health and Human Services when Patricia Roberts Harris was President Carter"s Secretary and before the Education jurisdiction was transferred to the newly established Department. As a result, our role in Title 9 was to address the fact that while the statute had been enacted, the implementing regulations had lingered in HHS (previously, Health, Education and Welfare) for some time.The delay was caused largely by the tremendous opposition to it. University Presidents and coaches opposed implementing the rules and lobbied Congress extensively to stop or slow them down. Secretary Harris discussed the matter with the President who had also been lobbied by the "It will kill Football as we know it" crowd and to some useful extent, women's advocacy organizations. The President approved the Secretary's request to issue.Two of the Secretary's advisers expressed grave concern about taking on this very controversial issue…she decided to do it. We held a press briefing which was widely attended.Secretary Harris told the press office: "I will make the announcement and Jodie will answer the questions"I have always been very proud of the role we played…The change it make in creating such significant new opportunities for women was incredible. Secretary Harris was the first African American to head a major department, first at HUD and then at HHS. She was remarkable in many ways and I was honored to serve with her.
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Susan Helt
Lock Haven, PA, Child Care Provider Coordinator
In 1972 during my Freshman Year of High School there was no girls’ basketball Program at Lock Haven Jr. /Sr. High School. (Now known as Central Mountain High School) We were told by the Athletic Director there was no interest and no money for the program. It was 1972 there were no sports for women except Tennis and Track. These sports were both during the months of May & June. My five intra mural volley ball team mates and I spent months working on a plan to get a team. We petitioned the School Board, wrote letters, acquired signatures, found coaches and were FINALLY told there would be girls basketball at our school. Much to our disappointment we would not be permitted to be on the team because there was only enough money for a Sr. High School team. We had to wait til the next year. We had left over boys uniforms, old basketballs from the boys previous season, no money for shoes or bus trips and the only spectators were our parents, but we persevered and today that program and many others are thriving. There are Girls Soccer Teams that have been State Champions with team members receiving 4 year College Scholarships, Girls Basketball Teams with players who have received 4 year College Scholarships, Girls Softball Teams that compete on a National Level and receive 4 year College Scholarships and various other sports for girls to compete in. In the 70's Class Valedictorian's at that same school were not given the Awards and Scholarship monies they earned if they were women--today gender is not even a consideration when awards are being distributed!!
The fact that it is possible for a young woman from that School District to receive a 4 year college scholarship is astounding!! It is something my classmates/teammates and I have never asked to be recognized for, but I for one am extremely proud of the achievement. Especially when I learn of a player receiving a College Education due partly to our efforts back in 1972!! Title IX has really made a difference
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